Today I have a special blog for you guys. so you re sick and tired of going on these Dating apps and not getting the matches you deserve if you're in tinder , Bumble , hinge ,POF doesn't matter right. if you're not getting matches, if you're not getting numbers or dates lined up then you're doing something wrong and no it's not because you look a certain way. it's all about using techniques that will get you the results that you're looking for.
Tip number one :
is to learn how to look attractive in all your photos by doing one simple trick. this is insane guys you're not even gonna believe this but I swear it's a hundred percent guaranteed. it is called squinching this is when you instead of having your eyes wide open for your photos like a deer in headlights, you squint them just a little bit. it is a fact that it makes you look more attractive. celebrities do this on the red carpet models do it for their photo shoots and now you're gonna steal this trick and make your photos look way better than ever before and here's how you do it.
first you're gonna narrow the distance between your lower eyelid and your pupil by pulling up this ligament right here which runs along the bottom of the eye basically you're gonna squint to this upwards a little bit super easy right. it helps to imagine that you're squinting just a little bit less than going like this as if you can't read something in front of you once you have that down all you got to do is work on your pose your angle and boom you look so much better and the crazy thing is this has been researched and the results are clear.
you can quadruple your matches just by doing that not only are you going to look better but it makes you look more confident more masculine and that is actually what is attractive about that pose about scrunching how crazy is it that you can change one little thing like this to get more matches online. it's insane but I still have six more tips for you.
Tip number two :
is make sure that your bio is different from all the other guys. every guy has the same bio on dating app. yeah I'm this tall I'm from this place I like to that... change it up add some funny. don't be afraid to write way more than most guys, the more time she spends reading your bio going over what you like the more chances you have of actually talking to her. make yourself sound interesting you know talk about what you're looking for and be funny be different that is the most important part when you have all those matches right.
Tip Number Three :
It's time to get to work if the first message you're sending out is hey what's up or hi beautiful your chances will drop to almost zero. you need to come up with a banger of an opener just to get her to even look at your message.
did you know that 25% of first messages on dating apps have less than six characters. you know how many messages are girls are getting every day every hour every minute. literally hundreds so why is your hey what's up message gonna stand out. guys you need to step it up you know if you want to attract the top 1% of women on dating apps, you got to be different.
Tip number four :
is get her off the dating app as soon as possible, look you're just another guy on tinder. you should always look for an opening to get her IG or phone that way you're not just another guy messaging her on tinder. they probably turned off the notifications anyway who wants to see tinder notification on their phone. so get her number get her IG because once you start texting her on her cell phone you're now in her inner circle. it's a lot different you're not just like any other guy on tinder or Bumble. so as soon as you feel like it's the right time ask her for the number ask you for her IG and start talking to her there and once you get her Instagram or text use voice notes the difference is voice notes are way more interesting all right you can record them a couple of times make sure they sound good and then send it over to her and that's going to be perfect.
Tip number five:
It's going to pique your interest way more and then just her reading a little message from you. you know you can put your voice into it, you can put your personality behind it. it just sounds way better and then she can get used to your voice. it's just way more intimate and it works guys instead of sending text messages as soon as you can send her a voice note and now that you have her Instagram she has your Instagram. you have to remember one thing right usually the first thing that girls do when you are on dating apps is either ask to see your photos on Instagram or you might have it linked already and synchronize to you tinder or bumble. your Instagram is basically your dating profile and you have to see it that way every girl is going to stalk you on IG before they hang out.
Tip number Six :
so this is what I recommend for you a good profile first of all. you don't need a ton of photos. you don't need hundreds of photos. second you don't need all professional photos but this is what I recommend the first two lines are the first six photos on your Instagram need to be of good quality I'm not saying they need to be in a professional camera but they need to look good. they need to be bright. they need to not be blurry that can't be food it just needs to show who you are good angles if you want to squinch then you should go for it and make sure that when girls look at those first two lines which is basically all that matters. those photos are good and the funny thing is once you have those six photos you don't really need to update your Instagram that much anymore.
Tip number seven :
guys look ,now you made your move, you got your matches , you know you talk to this person you want to meet her. so I beg you wait a little bit longer talk to her as much as needed FaceTime , you know send voice notes get to know each other but let's respect what's going on right now there's a lot of bad things happening in the world right now. you have to try to stay positive but what I would suggest is wait a little bit longer so that you guys when you meet that it's truly special, that it just feels way better and safer when you guys meet. I hope you guys enjoyed this blog.
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